The All Powerful Birth Contract

My lotus caesarean was possible because I gave the possibility serious thought and planned for it, just in case. I discussed each aspect in depth with my independent midwife and prior to my labour she even floated the vague idea past the Consultant Midwife at the hospital, as a hypothetical situation, for her to discuss with her colleagues. When we arrived at the hospital we produced the following document, which details all of the conditions on which I would accept obstetric help. It is firmly worded, leaving no room for anyone to override my consent. I am so glad I had it and I am reproducing it here in the hope that others will be able to use elements of it, or the document in its entirety, to enable them to get the care and the birth that they are entitled to. It is written with the fact that I had independent midwives and a doula and was planning a home birth, however, it can be edited for those with NHS care providers and those planning a hospital birth. Please feel free to take what you can from it and share it with anyone you may feel would benefit from it.

Birth Contract

Baby expected: Early 2012

Planned place of birth: Home

Independent Midwives (IMs): ****

Birth Partners: ****

Onset of labour

If delivery prior to spontaneous onset of labour is medically indicated, I will only consider induction of any kind or caesarean section after very careful discussion with my independent midwife (IM) and husband.

Labour/Admission to Ward pre-section

I wish for my husband, IM and doula to have access to me to continue providing support, though I understand if this is only possible by rotating persons present in the delivery room.

My birth supporters have been given direct permission to advocate for me if I am unable to do so for myself.

I do not consent to vaginal examinations.

I do not consent to CFM without careful consultation with my IM about the possible risks vs benefits.

The birth space will be respected; anyone wishing to enter the room must knock and await invitation to enter, quiet voices will be used, lights will be dimmed.

I do not consent to the use of prostaglandins.

I do not consent to augmentation of labour with ARM or syntocinon. If there is a genuine reason to accelerate the birth of my child I will agree to caesarean section after discussion and agreement with my IM and husband.

I do not consent to administration of pethidine or any other opiate pain relief.

I will only consider epidural anaesthesia after careful consultation with my IM.

Birth & immediate post-natal period

I do not wish to be coached to push.

I will be using whatever position is most comfortable for me.

I do not consent to episiotomy unless an emergency situation develops.

I do not consent to ventouse or forceps delivery without consultation with my IM.

My baby will be handed directly to me for immediate skin to skin.

I do not consent to prophylactic administration of syntometrine.

I do not consent to premature cord clamping.

If my baby is in need of medical attention, it will be provided with baby in my arms or on a firm surface right beside me. There is NO NEED TO CUT THE CORD FOR THIS. I am planning a lotus birth, the placenta will remain attached to my baby, even in the event of a caesarean section.

My baby will be treated gently and respectfully; no vigorous cleaning, no routine suctioning of the airways.

I do not consent to routine administration of vitamin k. If the birth has been traumatic then I will consider oral vitamin k only and only after discussion with my IM and husband.

My family and I will not be separated. Provision will be made for my husband to remain with me and our baby at all times.

Caesarean Section

I will only consent to a caesarean section upon careful discussion with my IM and husband.

My IM is to accompany myself and my husband to theatre.

I do not consent to routine prophylactic antibiotics during surgery.

Anaesthesia should be in the form of spinal block, rather than epidural. General anaesthetic should only be administered with the direct consent of myself or my husband, upon the advice of our IM.

Voices will be kept low, as will lighting for the birth.

Forceps are only to be used to extract my baby after thorough efforts by hand have been exhausted. My IM will be watching.

My husband and I wish to discover the sex of our baby ourselves, no one else is to announce it.

The baby will be handed directly to me, uncleaned and with the cord intact and un-clamped.

Administration of syntometrine will be delayed until the cord has stopped pulsating. If this takes an unusually long time we can negotiate.

My placenta is to be kept attached to the baby and removed from me only after the umbilical cord has stopped pulsating. I understand the risks of my abdomen remaining open for this period.

If my baby requires immediate medical attention, it will be provided with baby in my arms or on a firm surface right beside me/between my legs. There is NO NEED TO CUT THE CORD FOR THIS. I am planning a lotus birth, the placenta will remain attached to my baby unless there is a clear medical need to separate them, not including resuscitation, as this can be done on a firm surface beside me. I do not consent to my baby’s primary source of oxygen (through blood flow from the placenta) to be cut off.

If I am unable to hold my baby immediately following birth then my husband is to be the primary contact.

If my baby does need to be taken from myself and my husband then my IM will remain with him/her at all times.

My baby will be treated gently and respectfully; no vigorous cleaning, no routine suctioning of the airways.

In the event of caesarean section, I will only consent to oral vitamin k if for some reason the cord has been clamped prematurely.

If the surgery takes place at night, provision will be made for my husband to remain with me and our baby.

Provision will be made for my baby to remain close to me at all times, including use of a co-sleeper bed/crib.

In the Event of Transfer for Retained/Adherent Placenta

My baby is to accompany me into theatre, as are my IM and husband.

My husband is to remain with me and our baby at all times, if admission is at night then provision will be made for him to remain with us.

Provision will be made for my baby to remain close to me at all times, including use of a co-sleeper bed/crib.

Feeding

I am planning to breastfeed and do not consent to my baby being given formula under any circumstances. If I am under GA then my husband and IM have permission to put the baby to the breast for me and express my milk to be given by cup or syringe. My milk or donor milk is to be given if I am incapacitated or unable to feed my baby myself for any reason.

I do not consent to the use of bottles under any circumstances.

Admission to Special Care

If my baby needs admission to the special care unit, my husband and I will be given unlimited access to our baby and we will be using Kangaroo Mother Care.

Please see feeding instructions above. If tube feeding is required for any reason, the milk MUST be breastmilk.

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4 thoughts on “The All Powerful Birth Contract

  1. abuela says:

    Thank you, this is absolutely great!!!
    Will share on Leaving A Baby´s Umbilical Cord To Stop Pulsating (Delayed Cord Clamping), on Facebook.

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